How to Make Sure Your Personality Shines Through in Your Photos & Film
When it comes to your wedding photos and film, the most important thing isn’t the location, the outfit, or even the perfect pose—it’s you. Your personality is what makes your story one-of-a-kind, and capturing that honestly is what turns photos and films into something you’ll love for decades.
Here’s how to make sure the real you shines through every frame.
1. Wear What Makes You Feel Confident
Your personality shows most clearly when you’re comfortable. Whether that means a classic suit, a modern dress, boots, sneakers, or something a little unexpected—go with what feels like you. If you’re tugging at your clothes or adjusting something every two minutes, it’ll show. Confidence photographs beautifully.
Pro tip: Textures, layers, and accessories that represent your style bring depth and authenticity to your images.
2. Choose Locations That Mean Something
The most meaningful photos come from places tied to your story—where you had your first date, the trail you hike together, the city you call home, or even your favorite coffee shop. When you’re in a space that feels familiar, your comfort naturally brings out real emotion and connection.
If the spot is meaningful to you, it’ll show in your expressions without you even trying.
3. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
It’s totally normal to feel nervous in front of a camera at first. The trick is to shift your attention to each other rather than me (your photographer). Talk, laugh, whisper something silly, share memories, or just hold onto each other.
When you interact naturally, the camera becomes secondary—and your personality takes center stage.
4. Move—Don’t Just Pose
Movement brings life to your photos and films. Walk together, twirl, bump shoulders, sway, run your hands through their hair, dance, or brush their cheek. These subtle actions capture your energy and chemistry in a way still poses can’t.
You don’t need to know how to “pose”—just move how you naturally would with the person you love.
5. Bring Something Personal With You
Small details help tell your story. Think:
A jacket you always wear
Your favorite hat
A sports item or hobby prop that represents you
A pet
A vintage car or motorcycle
Flowers that remind you of something meaningful
You don’t need a “theme”—just elements that feel true to your style and personality.
6. Let Yourself Feel Everything
The most powerful images happen when you allow yourself to be fully present. Whether you’re laughing uncontrollably, tearing up, feeling playful, or enjoying a quiet moment—emotion is what makes your photos and film feel genuine.
You never need to force anything. Just be open to the moment.
7. Trust Your Photographer
When you trust your photographer, you can relax and be yourself. My goal is always to capture the most authentic version of you—not a stiff, overly-posed version. I’ll guide you, prompt you, and create a space where you can be natural, confident, and connected.
Authenticity always looks good on camera.
Final Thoughts
You don’t have to perform or pretend. The most beautiful photos and films come from genuine connection, real emotion, and staying true to who you are. When you bring your personality into your session, the result is timeless, meaningful, and uniquely yours.
If you ever want a session where your personality is truly the focus—whether it’s an engagement, proposal, wedding, or something just for fun—I’d love to make that happen.